Only then can I learn to love others deeply. Nothing makes me love a woman more than more riders than the metro. We can love ourselves and challenge ourselves, but also know when we need help from others, because of our own limitations. Thank you so, so much for all your wonderful support! The carcass of some animal is near the stream. Lance, this piece was so inspired — felt like it came straight from your heart; the heart that is ALL. Nothing makes me love a woman more than tight skimpy clothes that say come and get it. Click here to sign up to my Facebook page, Email, and RSS. Ajen, Self love is key. Do you play it safe, and stay on the trails, the trails of you? Likewise, you love your country, but do not love all countries. How could they? ~ Buddha. What a wonderful way to look at love – and to know that how we love outwardly, it’s a sign of how we love inwardly. It’s only because of Christ, I love myself and am grateful for that which is both blessing and gift. Similarly, other individuals are biased in their pre-judging whole groups of people as "not good enough" to date. The month is September. Looking "down" on others in a superior manner can give people a temporary boost to their sense of self (Fein & Spencer, 1997). I was having a conversation about this with my brother who believes that we have to love others, specifically Jesus/God, before we can love ourselves. We need to start with self love I believe, if we are ever to transcend love on all levels to all others, human and non-human beings. Still, it’s where I (you) can start, right? It’s really helpful to know that everyone is on the same journey of learning to love themselves and to love their lives. How do you find love? And when we see ourselves as such, love for self becomes such a greater part of our being. In fact, the very boyfriends, girlfriends, and lovers you are looking for might be right under your nose! It's a selfless love as I'm connecting with me on a deeper and more personal level. With Brian Belz, Nella Citino, Mark Huismann, Bob Moore. I do get off the trail in other ways and it is fun and can be scary, but that is the fun part. Those views also protect the individual's self-esteem from any criticism or scrutiny from those "poor kids". I love me enough to mess up, let up, speak up, not keep up, step up, get up and keep loving me more. No. Galen Pearl´s Last Fabulous Post ..Speak Wisely – PS. She is likely to have been previously hurt in a relationship. What a wonderful comeback LOL! I’d like to think it is possible, that if we each truly focused on loving ourselves even just a little bit more, we can reverse this cycle and fill the world with love. “He Had High Self-Esteem and Didn’t Ask Who I’d Slept With”, Study: 3 Options to Consider When Dating Seems Hopeless. 2) Pre-Judging - individuals may also judge others harshly and negatively without due cause as a way of protecting self-esteem. These words by Robert Frost, especially, are ones that I find such peace and comfort in…. Lynn, The sky is big, the shadows from the mountains an instant reminder of the vastness and grandeur of this land. All is golden and glorious in this gift of a day. They will only want the very best of all and God forbid should they settle for less which is very unlikely nowadays since most women as it is want a man that makes a lot of money or if he is completely rich to begin with. Now, when I can see that in myself, it’s like I’m seeing the Divine within…, As I type this, I’m reminded of a book I read last year – “The Shack” – a spiritual novel that was a moving account of the love a greater Being has for me (for you, for us). Awesomeness squared! Still, as you know, “being” in these places, it so helps us to more fully know ourselves. From where does love begin is the question of the day for you to answer. To me, self love is the most important kind of love. And this is our life – for each of us. Just me, far from home and all alone. Hi Megan, As children, I think, we are more ourselves than we are as adults. Joe, Life really is a journey. Enjoyed reading my story of self-love? And what a sweet, sweet gift that is. Our diets are so much more than just the food we consume, it’s a deeper part of the “why” behind what we eat. Who I close my eyes to see? When I put the guitar in the car. So never forget you have my heart. A present. “He invites me to lie down in green pastures. Most of the women now are making a very good salary so now most of these women are very high maintenance, independent, selfish, spoiled, greedy, picky, narcissists which is another story altogether right there, and very money hungry as well. xoxo And this will be the perfect topic for you to share with others about. This again protects their self-esteem, providing a ready-made excuse for failure. And these mountains I was in…they were mountains not so far from you – a part of the Rocky Mountains in northern Colorado. Are you passing up individuals for "trivial" reasons. Wandering into the deeper parts of who we are, this is something that can be hard. Lynn´s Last Fabulous Post ..Looking for food- finding food and wee neighbor. Most file explorers will run the .love using LÖVE for Android. Tice, D. M. (1991). Your email address will not be published. Jen Let's say it is a mid-morning in June. It’s such a beautiful thing…. Two roads diverged in a wood, and I, Evita´s Last Fabulous Post ..Earth Changes 8- How the Pursuit of Perfection is Limiting Us. And that’s because the self-love just wasn’t there. Lance, Hi Lance! We do learn about ourselves when we try new things. ... Our love on him too starts reflecting his love on us — unconditional. How Angie Got Her Groove Back & You Can Too. The more we love, the more we love. I went back to school to get all certified in nutrition/counseling/coaching – and surely I eat right – but I think what I THINK ABOUT has more to do with my current state of health than anything I eat or don’t eat! Love “letting go of numbness.” Let’s feel our lives, every delicious morsel. Thanks for your message of love. So, in choosing to love myself, I choose to love God/Jesus (because I see Him as a part of me). How to Start a Love Story. Where was that rock I climbed over? Breaking that circle, it starts with looking into the deeper recesses of who we are – and being accepting of what is there. Like this visit to the mountain, love…it's like that. Hi Angela, They start to create scenarios in their mind about how "unapproachable" or "unfriendly" particular other people look. The clearly marked trail and path of Christian. I’m not sure. Learn to see the best in yourself and others instead. The roles and responsibilities align with your skills and interests, but you’re still left with one question: Where do medical assistants work? I always enjoy your posts, but reading this one was a lyrical, poetic, almost ethereal experience. I love this thought you have shared – about how others are mirrors of us (on the inside). These biases and misperceptions make folks miss good opportunities. The song was first introduced as an instrumental theme in the 1970 film Love Story after the film's distributor, Paramount Pictures, rejected the first set of lyrics that were written. Also, realize that you will need to reciprocate and give something back to them too (see here). Thanks you Lance for this great way of finding the love we deserve to have for ourselves. And perhaps that’s what really matters – that it makes sense/feels right for each of us personally. …and I wander off the trail, the nicely marked trail called "my life"…, And I find these amazing things that are me. Ha!! In essence, they can "save face". To sacrifice is to give up something precious in order to gain or maintain something, such as a valuable relationship or some other worthy cause. It means following my intuition and being my own guru I believe that I was created by a God that loves me beyond measure. Meier´s Last Fabulous Post ..Pursuit- Passion- and Perils- The Story of One Young Entrepreneur. And with acceptance (and love) of who we are (really are), we do become more genuinely outwardly loving – to all creatures that inhabit this earth…, My recent commitment to meditating daily is keeping me more inner focused. It seems that your post has connected with your readers on many levels. After all, we all want to see ourselves in the best possible light. (and we are ALL those words – amazing, gorgeous, talented), Tia, thank you to YOU for being born, for being you, for the love you scatter so beautifully…, For me, loving myself is all about expressing who I really am, without shame. Little Lessons Under the Big Sky´s Last Fabulous Post ..MOTHERS…. When you choose to get off the clearly marked trail of "you", what do you see? I find one of the best ways for me to love myself is for me to just pause. I am going to get flack for this since it's the most un-pc thing to say but here goes! Of course the lessons here are many. Beautiful thoughts. Soon enough, it's clear I've found my way off anything resembling a trail. Make sure you get the next article too! Suzen, I know that you ARE love, and what a wonderful place to come from as you focus on helping others with nutritional habits. He has a great way of getting you in touch with your inner Universal Love; it’s really great. It reminds me that we’re all walking on roads that twist and turn, and we’re constantly evolving. Love is such a wonderful thing, and when that love starts from within…I know that the love I share outwardly just feels so much more genuine, so much more real, so much more from my heart…. Sometimes all it really takes is remembering the feeling of what we already know to breathe life back into our sails. Your message resonates powerfully 🙂 © 2011 by Jeremy S. Nicholson, M.A., M.S.W., Ph.D. All rights reserved. That’s such a beautiful way to look at loving yourself. The older I get, it seems I’m off the trail more than I’m on it. Maybe it’s time for me to get to the bookstore…. She had written it in response to an intuitive call to create greater Self Love Awareness. Be good to yourself None of that is here. The sandbox is a perfect place to start….and stepping out of it, the possibilities for love and life are as many as the grains of sand within the box:), So happy to start my day reading your beauty in words! Or as he says, it’s all “way,” meaning how we were meant to make our way through this world. Esteem protection or enhancement? Etc. Facial expressions. Jody – Fit at 53´s Last Fabulous Post ..What I See in the Mirror – Part 1. Wonderful story Lance. Wasn't there something that looked like a path, leading down to where I am? Jen, Where do i begin To tell the story of how great a love can be The sweet love story that is older than the sea The simple truth about the love she brings to me Where do i start With her first hello She gave new meaning to this empty world of mine There'll never be another love, another time She came into my life and made the living fine Today I'm keenly aware of the trees, the plants, the rocks. A sunny afternoon brings the desire to get out and explore. Marianne´s Last Fabulous Post ..December Newsletter, Hi Marianne, Love Story" is a popular song published in 1970, with music by Francis Lai and lyrics by Carl Sigman. Just found your blog and loving it! Good stuff. Melody | DeliberateReceiving´s Last Fabulous Post ..How Can You Be So Unrealistic! I know, also, how deeply you connect with nature. That’s a major lesson a friend imparted on me this winter: seeing the grace in everything. That sings the truth about the love she brings to me Where do I start With the first hello She gave the meaning To this empty world of mine That never did Another love another time ... How long does it last Can love be measured by the hours in a day I have no answers now But this much I can say I know I'll need her till the stars all away Answer the questions and get some gifts that may change your life for sure to the best. Go figure 😉 J.D. This post has so much wisdom and so many great insights. The day, I'm not sure. The sand has my attention. but we definately lose that deep connection we have with ourselves and the moment we are in as we get older…..then after a certain point we spend the rest of our days trying to love ourself and our moments as we did when we were younger. Karen, Individuals do this a lot in dating situations by building up how "scary" or "intimidating" it is to talk to someone else. It’s a beautiful post. Wait! Such an interesting concept. "You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." then sure. So, love begins when you learn about a person and understand who they are. 🙂 Again, great post. 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Essentially, they make excuses by biasing their perception of others as too big, bad, and threatening to date. I can’t give what I don’t have. Another trail leads up into the deeper parts of the forest. I’m not sure if that makes any sense – although I know it does for me. And, like a vicious circle, it’s all too easy to, ourselves, go out and do that to others, too. It’s like there is this inherent wisdom in us when we are born…wisdom that connects us to what truly matters (to love). It’s sad – how we can start our life in love and then slowly began a descent away from this wonderful place. And as quickly as it began, this feeling of unsassuredness…it passes. Hi Suzen! suZen. I like the way to use the forest as an example of getting of the trail of “you”. A small pond is the playground for a couple of ducks. I do wonder aloud though how much locale matters. And I love what you have shared – about how you have veered off your “planned” trail…the new direction, though, is good (and will continue, I’m sure, to be a blessing to you). And Robert Frost’s words always reach out and make my life feel richer. Hi Chris, Maybe two other cars are here, and it seems so quiet, so still, so peaceful. What was outside, it was amazing and incredible. Embrace our dark to bring us to the light. I don’t necessarily disagree, but as that was not my experience, I don’t think it’s true. Why are so many people drawn to conspiracy theories in times of crisis? That’s a great question – because it can be easy to I love myself – but am I really – or am I just giving the term lip service…, Thanks for your advice! When we do search for the real person in us, that is when we do learn to love and except who we are and can move forward. And this just feels so right for me, to join you on this project of self love. Self-love includes chocolate chip cookies! - The True Place of Love:True love remains above three gunas (states of mind). By protecting and enhancing your self-esteem in other ways, you will free yourselves up to notice the positive potential in others. The grass, the trees, the plants…they are growing around me. May not work in … I’m thrilled that you are joining me in my project on Self-Love. JD, That sandbox, it is like me. They build it up as more intimidating or scary than it is in reality. I often get asked about how to find a love. I believe that we are on a path towards perfection and yet we are perfection. …the deeper parts of the forest…the deeper parts of me…. We're getting ahead of ourselves, though. A familiar sight, this big group of boulders, and the trail right around the corner. Do I like myself and what I’ve become? I took the one less traveled by, David And do you love what you are being? Kinda profound when ya think about it! They make snap decisions, without really getting to know anyone else. Unless the writer was trying to say that love begins for a guy when he approaches a girl. Let's take a step back. Where do you even look for love? Well since it really does take two too tango today which i will say that most of the women that are still single are very much too blame for this mess in the first place since this is a very totally different time today. I like to say that we’re all basically love magnifiers…we love ourselves and so we love others and so we love ourselves and so we love others and so on and on and on and on. Andrew Walker´s Last Fabulous Post ..Beachbody Coupons. Sibyl, It’s the whole point of going on vacation somewhere new to “get off the trail” as you say. Be grateful when you find it (see here). Sorry, got a little deep here, but the post really connected with me. And there is great beauty in that. Birds chirp in the background, the sound of children laughing inside the house. That Buddha was a smart man. I will leave you never. I believe we enter the world loving ourselves and spend the next several decades being groomed not to. Is it possible to change this? (and so much more)  See, I think that intrinsically, we are love. As for me, yes I love getting off the clearly marked trail for it is there that I discover more about myself than I could perhaps ever imagine. Yes, I was momentarily agitated and disoriented, but then the new direction seemed fine. I don’t know – maybe it is. Traveling along, I turn onto a much less traveled road. Must I travel far and wide? Where does love live ? Hard to describe. (your story about living close to the mountains yet how easy it would be to get lost, really lost! Appearance. Tia Sparkles Singh´s Last Fabulous Post ..A Scanner’s Resume- How to tell if you’re one, Tia-liscious!! Mmmm…self-love and moving out from there into love for others. Revealing biases is critical. 'Let Older Volunteers Educate' is one option -- get in to view more @ The Web's largest and most authoritative acronyms and abbreviations resource. This is so integral, for it takes us on a journey of who are we really? I thought this year was going in one direction, then it took off in another. Blessing to you, On a more serious note – do we believe in ourselves? Who is this that we call “I”? Henway, Has the love I feel for myself ever felt like that? The “all” of us – it is all (for lack of a different word) (grin) of what makes up our being. But, you don't have to make those mistakes. However, when you fall into those traps, you don't see others for who they truly are. I know, and I don't notice. They can go on believing that they are willing and able to get a date...just not with "that" person. Etc. Thank you so much for sharing a glimpse of your own personal story – and what love has meant for you as this journey more deeply into self-love has become a part of you. And with my own personal love (real, genuine love) not present, my outside view of the world (both near and far) was much more jaded, much more "seeing the negative", much less openly loving. Would your … There is love in that old box (or tire, as was the case for me). I do love me too, and things always go better when I am gentle on me. Does love for self ever feel like that? Sure, the person is snug in their world, still feeling good and believing that they "can" get a date. What do we stand for? Everything around me, I know it's there – the grass, the trees, the plants. Love that thought – “what is eating you”. I also feel that God is a part of me! So, having you here and reading this today is especially meaningful to me. Or does true love begin with a relatively instant spark? So, thank you, very deeply, for your wonderful and caring words. This love I have for you will never stray. Well, there’s more! This represents my personally held philosophy, which is dual in nature. You can also read the rest of the stories written by online personal development bloggers in a Self Love Stories Report. I'm reminded of a time a few years back – a time where love for me wasn't really present. They sit in judgment of others, believing that everyone else needs to prove their worth. When we can go from this, to putting our trust in others, that’s love going out from us into the world. Evelyn Lim´s Last Fabulous Post ..Self Love Series- 101 Loving Yourself Quotes. Andrew Walker´s Last Fabulous Post ..Etihad Coupons, Your email address will not be published. Tess The Bold Life´s Last Fabulous Post .. Melody | DeliberateReceiving´s Last Fabulous Post .. Tia Sparkles Singh´s Last Fabulous Post .. Giulietta Nardone´s Last Fabulous Post .. Jody – Fit at 53´s Last Fabulous Post .. Christian Hollingsworth´s Last Fabulous Post .. Little Lessons Under the Big Sky´s Last Fabulous Post .. KCLAnderson (Karen)´s Last Fabulous Post .. Delena Silverfox´s Last Fabulous Post .. Jeremy Nicholson, M.S.W., Ph.D., is a doctor of social and personality psychology, with a focus on influence, persuasion, and dating. (and thank you). It was one simple line from the book Eat Pray Love that did it for me: “God dwells within you as you yourself, just the way you are.” I don’t align myself with any particular religion and that helps me believe even more. Thank you so much, Ajen, for this today…I’m soaking up your words and letting them just “be” within me. Hugs, Such a great point – this idea that we’re (and women especially) taught to give to others – and how maybe that’s a bit backwards. My gaze turns back, back to that small hill which brought me the stream. How about you? If we can learn to unconditionally love ourselves, we automatically learn to unconditionally love others. My first thought was, “Lance hasn’t always been this open, loving, embrace-the-world guy we see today? It's not about the sex or gender of the person but how they treat you! Sometimes people get in the habit of thinking others are "intimidating" or "not good enough" to protect their self-esteem while dating. You may be asking...what does this have to do with finding love? Love flows from a cleansed, purified heart. ... you start to become more fully yourselves with each other and your relationship will become richer. Certainly. I sit here on my back deck in late afternoon while I write this – and I look off into the beautiful, pine-tree covered ravine behind my home. Thanks so much for sharing your journey with us Lance. I join you in loving what I am being. Indeed – we should all practice loving ourselves. A simple example is a student choosing to not get a good night sleep before a big exam. Love, like the wind in our sails, lifts us up in amazing ways. KCLAnderson (Karen)´s Last Fabulous Post ..A Series of Goodbyes, What a beautiful allegory! It’s great to “meet” you! Hi Tia! Omg Lancikins, you are back!! Am I grateful for this life? Love the sandbox….love the world around me. Do not have a GPS system and don’t want one. However I am fully accepting of myself & proud to be myself. Big hugs and lots of love to you, dear friend… And how beautiful that is…. Learn to be curious (see here). What a great post. And while we are all at different places on that journey (from a lack of self-love all the way through a deep and personal love for self)..we are truly all on that journey. It means being honest, even if it means being vulnerable. Where is she? Who are we? Nothing makes me love a woman more than hearing what a character/nice guy i am untill she's over 40 than deciding she want to settle down. If he/she fails the test, then the poor performance can be blamed on "lack of sleep", rather than "lack of ability". In fact, you are the first person to express it similarly to the way I do. Just a short drive and I'll be there. 1) If everyone seems "scary" or "intimidating" - then you might want to check your self-handicapping. Does it fall from skies above? I start out along the "safe" routes. Seeing others as "scary" allows the individual to excuse their "failure" to say hello. And as always, it starts with home. A devotee gripped by prema bhakti forgets everything; he has no care for his own body, its needs or comforts. So, I love this point you have shared – about how self love is also about seeing, truly seeing, where self-love hasn’t always been so loving. Yum yum yummy… this post had so much food for thought! I hadn’t been over to your blog in a while because somehow it disappeared from my blog reader (but now it’s back and I am glad! …I am enough…(I love this message I get as I read your wonderful thoughts here). I keep my friends informed :)Finally, remember to share, like, tweet, and comment below. Sign up for the, January 1, 1970 • 67 comments. Learn to maintain your power while breaking the ice (see here). Evelyn, I know how much you truly ARE love, and that is so, so beautiful. They won't feel that the failure is their fault...and their self-esteem will be spared. The light, the dark, the uncertainty and doubt, the assuredness… Self-love and “the all” are one and the same. Is it underneath the willow tree That I've been dreaming of? It is, because grace is beautiful. It's so nice, this path that's known, comfortable, familiar. Lance, I was so touched reading this that I had to read it twice, and then other parts a third time. Ah, love began with God and grew to embrace the world. Looking for the definition of LOVE? Until next time...happy dating and relating! A simple example is a student choosing to not get a good night sleep before a big exam. I believe in you. Joe, thanks so much for sharing your thoughts – which really connect with me, also. Or merely a sign of strong chemistry and, perhaps, little more? And that has made all the difference. So, make sure to watch out for any biases that may have crept into your dating decisions. Dr. Jeremy NicholsonThe Attraction Doctor, Previous Articles from The Attraction Doctor. A couple meet for a night of passionate love, but discover they are childhood friends as the audience realizes that their love for one another is created through a false pretense. I wander, not knowing I'm wandering off the trail. I've caught myself rationalizing not approaching females just as you described. Once you ‘master’ this, accepting & loving others comes easily. In fact, I don’t even know where the trail is anymore. Beautiful reminder of how we can either spiral up or spiral down depending on how we focus and make meaning along our journey. It’s a great meditation. And other days, it can be a bit of a struggle… (that constant evolution), “The all” –> I like that. It all starts with us – everyone else around us just mirrors what’s going on inside of us. 2) If you're having a hard time finding someone who is "good enough" - then you might want to check your pre-judging. Delena, Thanks so much for your very wonderful thoughts…, Hi Lance, Self love is a hard thing. Sometimes we are scared to see the “real me”. We always need to take the time to explore ourselves to grow into the person we are meant to be. other than that... like does start when a guy approaches a girl alright, and if she can manage to keep things interesting, and not have dumb expectations, eventually Love may begin to form for the guy. You, I, and our love … Just a few short years ago, would I have been able to have said this? That September day. So meaningful to let these words soak in – and hearing the passage you’ve shared today – reminds me that there is a God who loves me (loves you, loves all), and He is there for us wherever we wander…. Still, they are ours. 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